Here is a diverse range of books for parents that I recommend to parents coming to our classes. Again these books are available to borrow from the parent library at Jacaranda Tree Montessori. Or if you wish to purchase a copy, please click the books below which will take you through to amazon.co.uk. As an Amazon Affiliate, we will receive a small amount to put towards future book purchases.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk, by Faber & Mazlich
This is the book I recommend most to parents. It made such a difference to how I communicate with my own children and in my work with babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers.
The core of the book is that you do not need to use rewards and punishment to get your children to behave in an acceptable way. And this book gives practical examples of what to do and say instead to back up the book’s theory.
We love this book so much, we run parent workshops based on this book as well.
Siblings without Rivalry, by Faber & Mazlich
Another book from Faber & Mazlich. They bring wisdom to an age-old problem – siblings fighting. It gives great strategies on how to guide children to solve their own problems.
Positive Discipline: The First Three Years, by Dr Jane Nelsen
A book full of practical tips how to handle feeding, sleeping and tantrums without using time out. Specialised tips for children under 3 years. Great to read in combination with “How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk”.
Thriving, by Michael Grose
This book takes a look at the big picture of parenting – how to instil values into your children, how to live as a family, and how to make your children resilient. I found this to be a really valuable book that puts it all into perspective.
I like this author a lot and recommend his other books too, for example, “One Step Ahead”, his blog, and his “Happy Kids” e-newsletter.
Raising boys, by Steve Biddulph
Having grown up in a family of girls, when my son was born I wanted to know if there was anything I should know about raising boys. A very useful book. It talks about the 3 general stages of a boy’s life and how their needs change as they develop.
The Creative Family, by Amanda Soule
I love the way Amanda Soule writes and the pictures in the book are beautiful and inspiring. Amanda presents a way to create with children that is accessible and fun. Lots of nice projects and ideas to do with your children. And I really enjoyed the chapter on creating rituals with your family too.
In Praise of Slow, by Carl Honore
This is an easy book to read with nice big type – great for tired mums!
It is not a scientific review of the slow movement but a personal account from the author as he explores the art of slow with regard to children, food, sex etc. I really like his chapter on children and his conclusion. Very well balanced and a good reminder to us all to slow down and enjoy.
Toxic Childhood: How The Modern World Is Damaging Our Children And What We Can Do About It, by Sue Palmer
Sounds like a depressing topic and, to be honest, finding out what could be potentially damaging to our children can be quite scary. However, what I really like about this book is the realistic practical suggestions at the end of each chapter telling you what you can do about it given the facts.